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Fatherhood Program

In short

Most men don’t walk into a fatherhood group because they woke up excited about it. Somebody told them about it. A wife, a mother, a caseworker, a friend who went through it. Or they hit a wall and realized the way they’ve been doing things isn’t working anymore.

On this page
  1. It’s not a parenting lecture
  2. What a session looks like
  3. What we talk about over 12 weeks
  4. Who the group is for
  5. What stays in the room
  6. Getting started
a father and his child

Most men don’t walk into a fatherhood group because they woke up excited about it. Somebody told them about it. A wife, a mother, a caseworker, a friend who went through it. Or they hit a wall and realized the way they’ve been doing things isn’t working anymore.

If that’s you, I get it. I’ve been sitting in rooms with men across metro Atlanta for more than 15 years. The first night always looks the same: arms crossed, hats low, everybody sizing everybody up. By week three, that changes. Here’s why.

It’s not a parenting lecture

When most people hear “fatherhood class,” they picture someone at the front of the room telling you how to change a diaper or set a bedtime. That’s not what this is.

Our 12-week Fatherhood Program builds the man first. You can’t give your kids what you don’t have. If you’re carrying anger you never dealt with, stress you never talk about, or hurt from your own father that you’ve never named, it’s going to come out at home. It always does.

So we start there.

What a session looks like

The group meets once a week for about 90 minutes. Every session follows the same rhythm:

  • Open up. We check in. How the week went, what came up, whether you took the step you said you would.
  • The real conversation. Each week has one topic. Anger. Money. Depression. Discipline. Being present instead of just being there.
  • Work it on paper. You go through that week’s section of the workbook, Fatherhood: The Conversations Men Avoid But Need to Have.
  • Leave with one step. Not ten. One real thing to do before next week.

In week one, you take a self-check to see where you’re starting. In week twelve, you take it again. Most men are surprised by how far they’ve come.

What we talk about over 12 weeks

Here’s the ground we cover:

  • What it really means to be a man
  • The father you needed and didn’t get
  • Anger and what to do instead of exploding or shutting down
  • The stuff men don’t say out loud: depression, anxiety, substance use
  • Self-worth, discipline, and health
  • Being a present father
  • Money, providing, and legacy
  • Letting go of old hurt and forgiving yourself
  • Designing the life you want with your kids

Who the group is for

It’s for dads and father figures. You might live with your kids. You might be co-parenting, or working to rebuild a relationship that got damaged. You might be a stepdad, an uncle, or a granddad raising grandkids. If there’s a child who needs you to show up, you belong in the room.

You don’t have to have it all together. Nobody in the group does. That’s the point.

What stays in the room

What’s said in the group stays in the group. Men open up when they know nobody’s going to judge them or repeat their business. That trust is what makes the whole thing work.

Getting started

You don’t have to become a whole new man this week. You just have to take one real step.

Call The Diversion Center at 404-503-8069 to find out when the next group starts and how to get your seat. Learn more about the Fatherhood Program here.

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